So, if you understand the importance of sleep, how come you were up at 3.40am?
And another thing! Why are you apologising for 'going on for too long' when that's exactly what this thread's about? We all need a release at times Dougie and right now you need it more than most. You have some good friends on here who genuinly care about you and want to support you. We want to be there for you and this is the only way we can do it. So pour your heart out. We're listening!
End of lecture.
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Originally Posted by: Caz
Guilty as charged Caz, but really I have done little else but sleep since I came home, usually in 2 to 3 hour chunks. Your other point about apologising is taken on board, but I feel that I have already aired my washing in public, a little too much. I am essentially a very private person, and don't want to be accused of being an attention seeker. As you know, I did not really want to be involved in such a thread, but having given it some thought, I decided to try an inject an insider view of what cancer is all about. It's not all about the tumours, of which I have three, with the potential of many more from the seeds dotted around my body. This high lights the importance of seeking early investigation, because once a tumour has established, it becomes too big for its original area, and seeds off. If the tumour is treated before this occurs, you stand a far better chance of successful treatment.
The real battle with cancer, from a patient point of view, is all the little demons, physical and mental allied to the treatment. The list seems endless, and some are very minor, but lump them all together and the problems become very real. Constant nausea, constant tiredness, the chop and change between constipation and diarrhoea, the need to check temperature, blood sugar, and blood pressure every few hours, are just a few of the things I have had to deal with on a relatively minor level. Don't start me on the number of pills to be taken daily. and their side effects. Add to that, the mini stroke, and the additional DVT brought on by the chemotherapy treatment, and we are starting to get serious. The internal bleeding caused by the thinning of the blood (two injections a day in the stomach), and the problems are starting to compound, and effectively put most other treatments on hold until they are sorted, so thereby more or less back to square one once treatment can be continued. Then you have the CT scans, the PET scans, the Barium x-rays, the Endoscopy's, the chemotherapy treatment itself, and throw in an odd Radiotherapy session, and if you are lucky/unlucky, the operations.
I have built up a bit of a picture of living with cancer on a physical level, and there is so much more on that level that I can't go into here for reasons of time and space. I mention now briefly the mental aspect, this is very much down to the individual, and I understand fully those who go so far and give up. To do so is wrong, at least for me, but the short term "easier" option can be attractive to some. I leave it to others to judge my performance.
Nobody ever said it would be easy, but I did not realise early on how hard it can be at times. I am in it for the long term, so please forgive my "bad" days, of which there are many, but this disease will not take me yet. Doubtful though it may be, I want my telegram from the Queen, and to see Sunderland win the Premier League.