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Gandalf The White
11 July 2017 17:09:13


 


 Sorry to hear about your parents Ben, how awful to find out about the two of them in such a short space of time. I am also encouraged to hear of a successful conclusion.


It's not quite so straight forward in my case. The primary tumour in the oesophagus is inoperable, and in addition, there are around 20 seeds dotted around my body. I received chemotherapy of six cycles before they ceased treatment, as it had not stopped 2 of the seeds from growing, although it did control the primary. I was to have started an alternative chemotherapy treatment 6 weeks ago, but this was before complications set in. A mini stroke, DVT, and internal bleeding, all accounted for a delay in chemo restart, although I have received Radiotherapy in the meantime to stop the bleeding. Once the stent is fitted the resumption of the chemotherapy should only be days away - hopefully.


Originally Posted by: Dougie 


Really sorry to read your news Dougie; you've been through a very challenging experience with more challenges to come.


Both my parents have had cancer: my mum survived almost 40 years after her first op and my dad is still around a decade after his.  


Modern medical science achieves remarkable things and I hope the treatment works. Good luck.


 


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Bertwhistle
11 July 2017 17:35:08

Dougie, really sorry you're so poorly but pray that all your treatment is successful. Modern medicine is so far ahead of years ago- three of my work colleagues have been diagnosed with cancer in recent years- all fine now- the most recent multiple and severe, and she's back at work today!


Stay on TWO if you can- I shamefully have forgotten the fn code for the degree symbol (I just post C again) and I was plucking up courage to ask you once again!


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Dougie
11 July 2017 18:14:48


 


Really sorry to read your news Dougie; you've been through a very challenging experience with more challenges to come.


Both my parents have had cancer: my mum survived almost 40 years after her first op and my dad is still around a decade after his.  


Modern medical science achieves remarkable things and I hope the treatment works. Good luck.


 


Originally Posted by: Gandalf The White 


Thanks Gandalf, I am amazed by the kindness shown by the members of this forum - thankyou.


It's not until a thread like this has been opened, that you realise how widespread this awful disease is, and I am glad to see that a lot of you out there, have had parents surviving with a decent quality of life. This is encouraging, and although the treatment I am receiving is purely palliative, I hopefully have some quality time left. That said, it's been far from quality for the last six months or so.


As you rightly state, there are more challenges to come. After the stent is inserted comes the first, that of the sometimes brutal side effects of chemotherapy. I was effected quite badly at times from the original concoction, but to a certain extent, you can learn to live with that. It's the little additional surprises that come along every once in a while, which can prove to be the real challenge. Time will tell.


Thanks again for the wishes.


Ha'way the lads
Joe Bloggs
11 July 2017 18:23:33

Best wishes Dougie. Hope all goes well. :-)



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Dougie
11 July 2017 18:31:25


Dougie, really sorry you're so poorly but pray that all your treatment is successful. Modern medicine is so far ahead of years ago- three of my work colleagues have been diagnosed with cancer in recent years- all fine now- the most recent multiple and severe, and she's back at work today!


Stay on TWO if you can- I shamefully have forgotten the fn code for the degree symbol (I just post C again) and I was plucking up courage to ask you once again!


Originally Posted by: Bertwhistle 


Thanks Bertie for your thoughts and wishes, it really is most humbling to read this thread, and don't worry, I am not going anywhere just yet. I will just blame Caz when I start crying


For your degree sign, it's 0176 on the small keypad whilst holding down the ALT button (if it's not ALT, it's CTRL, can't quite remember just now). I have yet to find out how to do it on this laptop and Windows 10, but will get there eventually.


Thanks Bertie, and everyone else who have contributed, especially Caz who started this all off.


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Dougie
11 July 2017 18:33:23


Best wishes Dougie. Hope all goes well. :-)


Originally Posted by: Joe Bloggs 


Thanks Joe, it's very much appreciated.


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Gusty
11 July 2017 18:55:58

Best wishes Dougie.


I hope all goes well for you. 


 


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Arcus
11 July 2017 20:05:06

I hope the treatment gives you as many miles on the clock as possible Dougie. 


I lost my cousin Helen recently who I was close to in my younger years, but I hope this piece by her gives some inspiration.


https://www.theguardian.com/books/2017/mar/04/helen-dunmore-facing-mortality-birdcage-walk



 


 


 


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Dougie
11 July 2017 22:01:17


Best wishes Dougie.


I hope all goes well for you. 


 


Steve


Originally Posted by: Gusty 


Thanks Steve.


I was interested to see that you were suffering from the heat the other day, much as I do, and I received a lot of stick last summer for complaining. Give it another couple of years, and you will be firmly entrenched in the Darren(Retron) camp. There are a few of us there already


Thanks again mate.


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Dougie
11 July 2017 22:05:20


I hope the treatment gives you as many miles on the clock as possible Dougie. 


I lost my cousin Helen recently who I was close to in my younger years, but I hope this piece by her gives some inspiration.


https://www.theguardian.com/books/2017/mar/04/helen-dunmore-facing-mortality-birdcage-walk



 


 


 


Originally Posted by: Arcus 


Thanks for the link Ben, thought provoking.


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Whether Idle
12 July 2017 06:37:21

All the best Dougie.  Stay optimistic and let that treatment will do what it can!  You're the man, Dougie!


WI


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NMA
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12 July 2017 07:29:16

Best wishes Dougie. Hope the treatment goes well. My older sister went through it a few years back and came out well not like a new lady she's too old for that but with a recharged outlook.


Was it you who first posted the Tromso snow webcams? I still look at them but now its summer the only snow is on the mountains.


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Dougie
12 July 2017 08:16:08


All the best Dougie.  Stay optimistic and let that treatment will do what it can!  You're the man, Dougie!


WI


Originally Posted by: Whether Idle 


Thanks WI.


I remain optimistic, but reality sometimes rears it's ugly head, especially when something else goes wrong health wise, and there is a long list of such problems.


Thanks again.


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Dougie
12 July 2017 08:39:00


Best wishes Dougie. Hope the treatment goes well. My older sister went through it a few years back and came out well not like a new lady she's too old for that but with a recharged outlook.


Was it you who first posted the Tromso snow webcams? I still look at them but now its summer the only snow is on the mountains.


Nick


Originally Posted by: NMA 


Thanks Nick. I am amazed by the number of folk here that have family members who have, or are suffering from cancer. Thankfully, like your sister, a lot have survived, and have a decent quality of life which is great, but I can fully understand how folk get so far into treatment, and then just give up. Sometimes it's easier.


Yes, I did post the Tromso webcams, although since the re-positioning of the camera, it's not quite as good, but come the winter, I can't resist a bit of lamp post watching. The last time I saw snow falling there was right at the beginning of May, and winter can come quite early that far North, so something to look out for.


Again, thanks Nick.


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idj20
12 July 2017 08:41:07

As Frank Spencer often used to say "A friend in need is a friend indeed".

I can't even imagine what you are going through at the moment but really hope you get to fight this thing. Hang on in there, Dougie.


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Dougie
12 July 2017 08:51:35


As Frank Spencer often used to say "A friend in need is a friend indeed".

I can't even imagine what you are going through at the moment but really hope you get to fight this thing. Hang on in there, Dougie.


Originally Posted by: idj20 


Thanks Ian. It does not always take a lot to raise the spirits, and with you keeping in touch, this simple fact has helped me a lot. One of these days the world will hopefully become more normal, and I shall come to Folkestone and buy you a beer.


Cheers.


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AIMSIR
12 July 2017 13:01:42

You're one of ours Dougie.
Loads of good vibes heading your way.
Keep us up to date, ye hear.

Dougie
12 July 2017 15:54:30


You're one of ours Dougie.
Loads of good vibes heading your way.
Keep us up to date, ye hear.


Originally Posted by: AIMSIR 


Thanks for the vibes Tony, much appreciated. Will update when I can,


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AIMSIR
12 July 2017 17:33:35


 


Thanks for the vibes Tony, much appreciated. Will update when I can,


Originally Posted by: Dougie 

Don't forget your normal interesting posts.Always a good read.

Caz
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12 July 2017 18:27:14


Thanks Bertie for your thoughts and wishes, it really is most humbling to read this thread, and don't worry, I am not going anywhere just yet. I will just blame Caz when I start crying


For your degree sign, it's 0176 on the small keypad whilst holding down the ALT button (if it's not ALT, it's CTRL, can't quite remember just now). I have yet to find out how to do it on this laptop and Windows 10, but will get there eventually.


Thanks Bertie, and everyone else who have contributed, especially Caz who started this all off.


Originally Posted by: Dougie 

Glad the thread's working out for you Dougie!  I don't mind admitting I cried when I read your first post!    Just what you want to hear when I'm supposed to be cheering you up! 


Anyway, that's another day closer to Friday and I sense you're a little chirpier than you were a couple of days ago!  God, hospitals are such boring places aren't they?  I'd swap places with you for a couple of days though, just to give you a break.  But I can't so you'll have to settle for a virtual hug and a whole lot of positive vibes!  


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Ally Pally Snowman
12 July 2017 19:15:40

Best wishes Dougie sounds like a tough few months to say the least. Keep fighting!


Cheers 


Anthony 


 


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Miss Dot Com
12 July 2017 20:03:02
Blimey I knew something was up but crickey sounds like it's a real tough time right now. I know all about cancelled operations we had that a while back with the old man but got there in the end. Hope you are able to get some quality of life back soon and if not Caz is right just sound off in here, there's plenty around to help you through. Take care and thinking of you xx
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idj20
12 July 2017 20:21:35


 


Thanks Ian. It does not always take a lot to raise the spirits, and with you keeping in touch, this simple fact has helped me a lot. One of these days the world will hopefully become more normal, and I shall come to Folkestone and buy you a beer.


Cheers.


Originally Posted by: Dougie 



I'm a teetotaller (as in a boring old fart).  But you should see the new Folkestone Harbour Arm which is nearing completion, it's really a world away from the rotten decaying thing it once was. It's even going to have three static Pullman coaches installed in there and be as a café and sleeping quarters.


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Dougie
12 July 2017 23:33:25


Best wishes Dougie sounds like a tough few months to say the least. Keep fighting!


Cheers 


Anthony 


 


Originally Posted by: Ally Pally Snowman 


Thanks Anthony, yes it has been a bit tough, but I still have a smile on my face on occasions. Everyone on here has been great.


Ha'way the lads
Dougie
12 July 2017 23:48:54

Blimey I knew something was up but crickey sounds like it's a real tough time right now. I know all about cancelled operations we had that a while back with the old man but got there in the end. Hope you are able to get some quality of life back soon and if not Caz is right just sound off in here, there's plenty around to help you through. Take care and thinking of you xx

Originally Posted by: Miss Dot Com 


Thanks Dotty, it is annoying when procedures are cancelled, particularly when I was prepared and wanting to get it over with. Now, as the new date approaches, I am starting to get nervous, so please Mr Doctor, don't cancel it again.


Thanks again.


Ha'way the lads

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